Ron Small Memorial: August 2009

I don't even know where to start. I have so many memories and stories of Ron. I am blessed and honored to have known him and consider him one of my best friends. There are so many things that come to mind when I think of Ron. His legendary "I'm a Grown Man" speeches....the way he always had to have a matching cap and shirt on....his brutal honesty and blunt comments. If there was ever a person with ZERO reading between the lines it was Ron, what you seen is what you got. I will be adding some stories later, but for now I just wanted to say that I love you Ron...I can't believe how you are busting me up right now. We are dealing you in for cards tomorrow and I am going to want my 50 bucks when I see you in Heaven, you would have lost it any way. I love you, Ron....I am going to miss you so much brother.Steve Culley
I've had the honor of knowing Ron for more than 20 yrs. I have not met anyone who has overcome more adversity in his life and still be as appreciative of every day like Ron. Ron impacted everyone he encountered, some good and some bad, but you always remembered Ronnie. I will truly miss you Ronnie and I am so glad that I was part of your life. Seeing you transform from an Atheist to a Christian as part of our Bible study was an absolute gift to our group. I have no doubt that I will see you again in Heaven. I will really miss you!! Jimbo Kiecker
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, you will be missed. See you in heaven. Scan and Rochelle
About Eight years ago, Ronnie and I were at my place drinking and he said to me, "I am an atheist, swear to God!" Eight years later I can say to you all that Ronnie had accepted Jesus Christ in his life, and is truly a man of God. I am a better man today for knowing Ronnie Small. God Bless Brother. John Lom
Whoa, whoa, whoa.... Save me a good seat my friend. Kelly
Ronnie...you are a grown man...you became a man, the day you humbled yourself enough to be a child of God...we verbally bucked heads and had many great debates...but when it was all said and done, you always took the time to let me know, that we are friends and made sure that neither one of us harbored any bad feelings...you are a true friend...you will be missed and you will always be in my heart...and I look forward to spending eternity with you on the other side.Nesty
Everybody that knows Ron, knows he used drugs and alcohol for most of his life. Two and a half years ago he got sober with 4 or 5 other friends that were battling addiction as well. Six months later he was the only one still sober. I asked him, "Ron, why are you still sober? I don't mean to be blunt, but out of all of you guys you're the only one with NO support system...you have no family at home....I don't even know if you have a place to go for Thanksgiving and Christmas...explain that to me."He said, "Someone told me I couldn't get sober......don't tell me I can't do something."Steve Culley
Back when we were about 20 years old, a group of us had been drinking all day and about 12 of us went to the Anoka County Fair. We lined up on the stools of the horse racing game where you roll the cue ball up and depending on what hole it dropped in your horse would go forward. We didn't know it, but Ron took the cue ball. A few minutes later, we were all among a large group of people watching this big hairy carnival worker hollering for people to "step right up....step right up!" Everybody that knows Ron will tell you that he wasn't the most athletic fellow in the world....but out from the back of this crowd comes sailing this cue ball and it hits the BIG carney right in the chest and with a thud you could hear the air leave his body. The crowd is looking frantically....the carney was irate and there Ron looking all innocent like he didn't know what was going on. I have no idea why he did it....but I have to admit I have told that story a hundred times and I can't make it through with out cracking up.Steve Culley
Like the others here...I don't know where to start. Ronnie came into my family's life..and never left. Family birthdays, Holidays, we could always count on Ron being with us. Always a bouquet of flowers for mom....making the rest of us look bad ! After Ray's surgery Ronnie needed to know what to bring Ray.I think he showed up with ice cream and chocolate,both are Ray's favorites ! He was a strong and proud man, that set his mind to something and never wavered. Heated debates around the dinner table. Strong convictions, but never a mean word and always a wink & a smile to let me know he heard my opinion..but still disagreed with me. Losing Ronnie will leave a huge void in our family, more than I can explain here. I love you Ronnie!! Marlene Lom

Captain Ron! It's been a pleasure and a honor to have known you for the last 3 1/2 years. We have played alot of poker together and shared alot of laughs. Friday nights at Raghead will never be the same. I'm thinking you Steve Washburn are probably playing heads up right now....damn that sounds like some easy money! God Bless. T-Hank
Ronnie was my little brother. Ronnie would say my name is Ron not Ronnie but to me he will always be Ronnie. Ronnie was lost for a very long time but God helped Ronnie turn his life around and i was so happy for him. Ronnie was taken way to soon and i will always love him. I saw Ronnie on the 4th and he was telling me about his painting business I told him that i was proud of him. I'm so glade i hugged him and told him that i loved him. Ronnie you will be in my heart forever and im so sad your gone. I Love YOU .........your sister Robin
I didn't know Ronnie as long as most here, but I did know him long enough to see him go from not believing in God to being Born again, redeemed by the blood of Christ! Ronnie was as stubborn as a mule! He would always have a question as to the existance of Jesus Christ as the one true God. He would always say "whoa, whoa, whoa!" But as it turns out Ronnie wasn't as stubborn as he lead on, because after a period of months praying "God if you are real, please reveal yourself to me" God did just that! To hear Ron tell of how Jesus continually pulled out "all this dark stuff" and to know that he replaced it with His Holy Spirit, was one of the most powerful testimonies I have witnessed first hand. I will missed ronnies random phone calls. I will miss his greetings with a handshake, saying, "Matthew!" Ronnie was a man of integrity. He was trustworthy, honest, and was never afraid to say what was on his mind! He will be missed. Matt Ward
I keep thinking of so much stuff about Ron...Like how he taught the kids at his apartment how to golf in the field (well...Ron's version of Golf anyway) and he explain the rules of waiting your turn, etc. and one kid broke a rule and Ron grabbed his club and said, "OK, you're done now"...those kids never broke another rule with Ron...he said it, you did it, or you're done....he was so black and white I love it.Many don't know this, but Ron was amazingly giving for a seemingly "hard nosed, get out and work kind of guy". He would would give people money, buy people groceries, give people in his apartment rides, hand out free pops to the kids...but he was so practical at the same time....I remember him telling me a few different times how a homeless person or drug addict would be on the street and he'd offer to take them to get some food....he wouldn't always give them money because he knew where that would end up...but he always ask them if they were hungry.I was with Ron in small claims court in January and he was up making his case to the judge and then the guy that owed him money starting making his case. His "opponent" starting blatantly lying and Ron gives a loud sigh and turns around, looks at me with his arms spread wide, shaking his head and rolling his eyes. The look on the judges face was priceless. That was Ron...he acted and talked the same whether he was front of the average guy on the street or the President of The United States.Ron and I logged hours debating God and The Bible....for over a year it became a Saturday Night and Sunday Afternoon routine....the cell rang and sure enough it was Ron..."what about this"...what about that"....then he got to the point where he told me that I wasn't sharing The Gospel right...he said I was to bold and in your face about it (imagine that...coming from Ron)...So I asked him how he'd do it if he believed how I believed....he said, "I'd try to relate to people a little bit and then I'd say, you got 'lots of months in your life...give me 1 month, 1 month...read the Bible..." and then Ron stopped talking because he realized we'd been trying to get him to read the Bible for a while and he refused, and he said "You mind (explicative) me!" I said, "I wish I was that smart." Ron said, "Well, ya got it on cd!?" Long story short...Ron listened to the entire New Testament in about a week and got saved shortly after that and what an amazing story he had to tell about that. God had Ron in His sites the whole time it seems.Steve Culley
Thank you to whoever posted the picture of Ron and the gang in the canoe but I was the one that took that photo and man do I have memories of that camping trip...as well as many others. I was just watching my home movies from my years of growing up in Coon Rapids and Ron was always there. I lost touch when I moved away, but I am happy to hear he had turned his life around. I hope his strength (and his attitude) will prevail in others. God bless Ron. Keep an eye on all of us! Author Unknown (please let us know)
Those of us that were fortunate enough to know Ronnie were truly blessed! In the few years I knew Ron or as my fiance and I called him "#5", I may have met the most true and honest person I have ever had the pleasure of knowing in my 30yrs! Ron had an impact on my life like a big brother would, whether it was discussing politics, golfing or just listening to his many rants and raves, he somehow could almost make me forget my point of view! He was quite the character! I will miss being cramped in the filthy s-10 and hearing the road rage, or when they could never get his order right at a fast food restaurant! He was very proud, sometimes too proud. We would offer him to come for dinner almost every night, yet not once did he take up the offer. He didn't want to be a burden. Well Ronnie what I wouldn't do to hear one last "WUD UP" from ya! Megan, our children (who you were so good to)& I will truly miss you my friend & you will not be forgotten! Brian Patten
I'm having a hard time putting into words what you meant and how much you will be missed by me and everyone I know you came in contact with. You were the best neighbor (and probably the sanest) I could have asked for, when I moved my family you continued to visit, just as much as you did when I was 5 doors down. I understood your struggles...personally. I never had to ask you what you were thinking cuz it was right at the tip of your tongue at all times. As a small town girl I've found very few people that had the kind of pride and respect and honesty that we all have the capability of but forget how to use, you my friend possessed this fully. You were a part of my family and a true friend, #5. I'm sure you got your new Nike gear on in Heaven. I'll miss you joking that I need to be busting out the vacuum or doing the dishes or something...haha. You were a hard worker and a man to be admired...at least I do. I love you Ronnie, thanks for being one of a kind to touch the life of my family. Megan Murray
Ronnie, You came back into all our lives these past few months full of opinions, arguments and love. Ronnie, you left too soon. We are all still trying to make sense of this. For whatever reason, you came back to connect and I am so grateful for the chance I had to tell you how proud we were of you how much we always loved you. You asked if I could make you a fried chicken dinner like back in the day. So we all got together for the dinner and talked about our camping trips and had some lively discussion with your comments on why it’s the Democrats fault for everything and women should take pride in their kitchens. That went over well in a house full of women! Ronnie, and yes like Robin, you will always be Ronnie to all of us. We love you Mindy, Tom, Melissa and Sarah Johnson (Ronnie’s Aunt, Uncle and Cousins)
All I have to say is I met ronnie in the 1st grade and he has always and will always be one of my best friends. I LOVE YOU BIGGY Author Unknown (please let us know)
WOW WHAT A KICK IN THE HEAD, I DON't EVEN KNOW WHAT TO SAY.I MET BIGGIE WHEN HE FIRST STARTED AT SORTERBERG I THINK IT WAS 1ST GRADE ALL I CAN SAY IS HE WILL ALWAYS BE AND IS ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS. WHO SENT THE PIC OF US IN CANOE. I LOVE YOU BIGGIE, NORM
Ronnie gave the best hugs! Love Cindy Brennan
Ronnie, you will be forever in my heart , and I want to thank you for coming back into our lives with your booming presence,” Big Time” opinions and providing us with some entertainment with your views of the world, politics, and how the demarcates are mostly to blame for pretty much everything. I will miss your quotes from Good Times and All in The Family; you always had one in your pocket. Ronnie said “Do you know how many times you hear the words “Big Time”? Well Ronnie you are “Big Time” And I will think of you with love in my heart every time I hear those words from now on. We will miss you so very much. Always Ronnie to me, Oh by the way I am proud of my kitchen. I love you Ronnie Love, Tina, Hector, Sophie and Nate
This past winter, Ronnie was house sitting for a friend of ours and hosted a garage poker game. When he called to invite me, I could sense a difference in his demeaner. He wasn't straight to the point like he normally was. Instead he was telling me the the buy in was only $20 or $25, and not the normal $50. Knowing that I enjoy the game and the hospitality of friends just as much for $20 as I do for $50, (ok, I am cheap and not that good at cards) I believe that he lowered the minimum to make sure that I was there. He also told me about the wonderful spread of food that he and John L would have waiting for us when we got there. He was right. Nothing beats a barbeque in March. While playing the game, he made sure that everyone had pleanty to eat, that we were aware of the cooler of pop and water if we were thirsty. A few guys enjoyed their heaters every once in a while, and he made sure that they smoked outside and got on them if they left the door open. We're not heating Coon Lake, he would say. The night ended, and a few of us stuck around to help clean up the and move sno-mobile trailer back in the garage. He didn't wait until the morning, he took care of it right then and there. The next day, he called me to thank me for coming and ask me if I had a good time. The whole event touched my heart, because I could see how much pride Ronnie put into hosting this event. The lowering of the minimums so more of us cheap ass's (Maybe just me) would show up. The food, the respect of the homeowners energy bill and his property. The post event phone call. Thanks Ronnie, you were a wonderful host. Chris Neston
I recently met Ron at golf league and I was just beginning a painting/work relationship with him. In my short time knowing Ron, I could tell that he was the type of guy that put a smile on your face just from chatting or being around him. I and we will miss you and your fantastic attitude. I know Ron is in a better place and I am guessing he will be in heaven on a golf course having a great time and making everyone around him a better and happier being. God bless Ron!! Steve Gahm
Ronnie- It has been great having you back in our lives these last few months, having you come over for dinner, birthdays, and coming to see me at CUB! I know you think I live there :) I think you see me there more than at home! We wont tell anyone that we spent over an hour one day talking around the store. Your spirits have been so high and seeing you with a smile on your face put a smile on mine. Thanks for being you! You will always be in my heart. Love Always <3 <3 Your little cousin Sophie
I am having a very tough time dealing with this loss... I cannot speak or write very well with tears in my eyes. Ron was a very close friend to me, we shared many stories about a common past we had. I either seen or spoke to Ron on a daily basis even when he was up north fishing, life won't be the same without him. My son Dustin has reassured me that God took Ron home cause God needed him, but why so soon??? I will write more when I have better control of myself, right now this is too difficult for me. Nancy Osterman
Ron i am so happy you showed up for the 4th at my grandsons birthday party, even though it got rained out and we had to start all over it was well worth it because that day all 4 of us sisters and brother got to spend time together that day anyway i love you and you will be missed by all love shelly
Hello Bro, It's me you're sister. Sure wish you were here, miss your weekly phone calls. I had a wonderful time with you on the 4th of July, wish we could do it again. Ronnie and I (his sister Tracy keept in contact, and stayed close until the end. This was such a gift from God for all of your family to see you on the 4th, and we are all glad you spent it with us all. We cryed togeather, and talked on the phone, we shared stories from our past, and the future dreams we had. I just laugh when I think about you and Dwayne (My Husband), trying to play golf, and you said dam dude that ball went nowhere, we all laughed. You told your nephew Ryan, not to let me BBQ because I knew nothing about BBQing. This was my brother, always keeping it real. lol..lol..You are my heart and I will always love you forever, I miss you already dude, but I know you are up there in the heavens looking down on me, and trying to keep me sane. I am crying so hard every minute I think about you, please hold my heart, I need you. Love will always be in my heart for you until we hold hands in the big sky forever. By the way tell timmy hello, and I know you are both sharing stories about us all in heaven. I want to thank everyone who posted on here, for family and friends to laugh, and share things that only you knew about my brother. We hope you all are ok, and please feel free to call me for anything. Tracy Flowers
Wow! Where to start?? I met Ron a lifetime ago in my backyard. He used to stay with his Aunt & Uncle in Coon Rapids. A neighbor kid would come over to watch us all ride ramps (bicycles) in the backyard and one time Ronnie tagged along. It was a little different meeting someone like Ron at the time. All of us had pretty simple, middle-class lives and never had to wish for too much. Ron was different. He never had much and lived a different life. He had TONS of stories to keep us all entertained when we took a break from riding. From that day forward we all looked forward to seeing Ronnie. Ron was honest to a fault even at that age and you knew right away you could depend on him to keep his word. Toughest part about our friendship with Ron was getting him to trust any of us (maybe with good reason at that time). Ron always asked a lot of questions and never let his pride get in the way if there was something for him to learn. Ron was a little younger than us, but grew up long before the rest of us. We spent years hanging out...getting into trouble...having fun. I think for the longest time we all thought Ronnie was just the kind of person who hung out to have fun and didn't have much of an interest in knowing what real friendship was all about. Turns out this couldn't be further from the truth. He became one of my most trusted friends. Ron was quiet most of the time and had the patience to soak it all in before offering his point of view. And most of the time, he was right on the money. If you did anything for him, he made sure you knew he appreciated it and you knew that he was going to return the favor somehow, sometime. I didn’t see Ron too much in recent years, but it was always great when I did. I had the fortune of talking to him just two weeks ago. We talked about his business and his web site and we talked about old times. I thought about what Ron had done with his life and found myself feeling proud. He was a great person. More importantly, he was the same friend after all the years. I am going to miss you brother. -Mark Miller
I didn't know you that well, but what I did know was what a kind hearted friend you were to so many people. You will be missed! Thank you for touching so many lives is such a wonderful way while you were with us. May God Bless and Keep You In His Arms. -Opie
Ron, It's so weird seeing all the guys playing poker and you're not there- I keep waiting for you to come and give me a big hug:) I wish you could hear everyone in the gazebo telling stories and laughing- we love you Ron! Wendy
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Ron and I had our problems but he was right there for me when I my husband died two weeks ago. I'm still in shock over that and now this , what's next??? It will be very hard going into the office and not hearing about the night before.I love him and will truly miss him and his news commentary. Pat Baker Dant #49
We really didn't know each other well but the stories I heard about you I knew you was a pretty cool guy. Just this week we had the pleasure of meeting each other and your presence was so welcoming! You will truly be missed and I know you are in a better place! Love Jasmine
R.i.p Ron Small, a sad tragedy no one ever expected. I don't even know how to begin, but you touched so many lifes oddly to say and you were a great friend and I knew you were always some one I could count on and you were a great friend of my son's he still mentions you and we will never forget you. A man who stepped up an cared for many people and numerous kids that were not even your own there is so much I could go on an on but im gonna end it by saying "You played an important role not just in my life but in many others, and no one ever realizes how important that role was until its gone." Dimitra Osterman
Ron, i can't believe im writing this! You were a really good friend and i have lots of memories of us hanging out, golfing, ripping on each other,etc.....im glad to hear you got your painting business you always dreamed about! Also proud to hear you got off of drugs!!!!! Wish we would have stayed in touch since i moved away! Thanks to who ever sent the canoe picture of the clan, and thanks to you Ron for being a friend!!! Mike Herrmann (Bart)
Ronnie (again, always Ronnie to me)... I dont know where to begin. Im still in shock at the news and I have broken down several times. I have been spreading the word for the last few days now...almost all of our old friends know what has happened--from here to Utah, Ohio, and Georgia. The outpouring of support I have received since, has been a huge crutch for me but, it doesnt take away the heartache I feel in losing who I consider my "baby cousin"...the "baby of the bunch". Back in the day when I was having my own issues, you were coming to our house and playing Atari on our tv. You'd sit on the floor in front of the tv and just play for hours on end. You would tell my Mom how I needed to stay away from "certain people" because they were no good for me. (Even then, as young as you were, you watched out for your older cousin). You played the messenger between Tim Young and I when we finally broke up after all those years and, in your true Ronnie self (even then--no more than the age of 10 if my memory serves me right), you made it clear to me that you believed I was making the mistake of my life. If I only knew then, what I know now! I remember you "jammin" to your favorite song, "Sister Christian" by Night Ranger and "Dust in the Wind" by Kansas and then, in true Ronnie form, making fun of my son's name "Justin" by singing "Just in the Wind", when he was born. I remember so many things, Ronnie... You were always more grown up than what people gave you credit for--an "old soul", if I may call it that--and I think thats why you felt so "righteous" in your own opinions--because you were allowed to be just that...to be allowed to form your own opinions and make your own decisions, at a very very young age. But, that made you, you...the Ronnie I have so many memories with and the baby cousin I come to love so very much and have considered more my little brother, than my cousin. We lost touch for some time but, we talked again just recently and I tried to help you as much as I could, with sadly, no solution. I felt so bad that I couldnt be of more help to you. I knew how important the information was for you, and I know you thought I would be the one to be able to come through with flying colors for you but, because I too changed my life and lost contact with a lot of old friends, I couldnt get the access for you that I needed to help you out. I know you left for a place you were needed more and to a place where you can still continue to watch over everyone as you always have--and I take comfort in that. You left too soon though. You may have fulfilled your life's plan but mine feels empty without you and I cannot wait to meet you again on the other side. I am going to attempt to upload a picture of you, me and your sister (my other cousin, Tracy) on here that was taken on Christmas, what feels to me now, like eons ago. I hope it goes through because those were some of the best memories I had of all of us together. I love you, baby cousin...the baby of the bunch. I will continue to pray to you--and for the rest of our family. Love, Lori
I'll never forget Ronnie! Him and Boes playing pool til they got kicked out of whatever joint they were in...this is before they were even 18 years old!! They were a great match in pool! Ronnie always was a straight shooter-like others have said-you never wondered what was on his mind! That's what is so enduring about him! Ronnie loved to play "Never been to Spain"... I can't stop singing that the past few days! Love you Ron and pray you are playing the best round of golf and/or pool right now!! Will miss YOU and your Nike shirts and hats!! Author Unkown
Hehe I remember when I worked at Ham Lake, that's how I first met you. 'Anyways I showed you and Sam several apts and I didn't have the key for #24 but you insisted you could open it an that you did with a putty knife!! Ramone is right here and seen your photo he said "Thats Ron he is my best friend". Dang we got a whole bunch of popicles an freezes now whos gonna eat all these things!!? Miss u Ron Love again Dimitra, Asia, and RoRo :)
Ronnie, you were in my life as long as I can remember and you will be in my heart FOREVER!! I want you to know I always thought of you as a honerable man , and you had so much to offer anyone who was blessed enough to cross paths with you!! I am proud to say you were my stepbrother BUT in my heart I never used the word step!! I LOVE YOU FOREVER AND YOU WILL BE MISSED!!! LOVE CHERI (PAAR)
I'm not real good at saying goodbye so let me just say... WHOA,WHOA,WHOA - WAD UP - YOU DONKEY - YOU CALLED ME WITH WHAT? - and of course, I AM A GROWN MAN. Peace and Gods blessing to my friend Ron and his friends and family. Jeff, Sue & Megan Capistrant
RON ALWAYS TOOK MY SONS OUTSIDE GOLFING IN THE FIELDS THAT WAS DAWSON THAT DIDN'T WANNA WAIT HIS TURN LOL !! DAWSON IS MY 7 YR OLD WHO WAS ALWAYS SCREAMING RONS NAME N THE PARKING LOT RON AND DAWSON JUST FOUND A TURTLE ON SUNDAY 7-5-09 ON THE WAY TO THE STORE. WE BROUGHT IT HOME AND MADE A HOME FOR IT. HE KEPT ASKING THE NAME AND DAWSON KEPT SAYING I DON'T KNOW . RON SAID NAME IT WITHIN A WEEK OR I'M TAKING IT BACK!! DAWSON NAMED IT TODAY RON !! HE ALWAYS HAD ADVICE FOR ME!! MY OLDER SON DYLAN IS 13 HE'S AT HIS DAD'S RIGHT NOW BUT I CALLED HIM HE CRIED SO HARD !! WE LOVE U SO MUCH AND WE KNOW YOUR NOT THEIR DAD AS U WOULD ALWAYS SAY TO DAWSON WHOA WHOA WHOA BOY I'M NOT UR DAD !! AND I WOULD ALWAYS SAY NO BUT UR THE ONLY MALE ROLE MODEL TO THEM AND I APPRICIATE THE TIME U TOUCHED OUR LIFE !! BOBBIE JO,DYLAN AND DAWSON
Well, Like so many others, you dont know where to start. When I first met Ronnie, it was at Kieckers house in Coon Rapids about 7 years ago. he was the old Ronnie, I thought wow what a different person. From that day on, I realized from the stories he had shared with me and Cullman one night after hours at work, I realized what a person he was. About a year ago, I had asked him if when my kids were the right age, if he would be willing to come over for dinner and talk to my kids about Drugs and how it has affected him. What he did and why he changed. I have never met a person so honest and caring. I could ramble on and on about on Ronnie has touched my life, but will end it with this, Ronnie will be missed in ways people will never understand. I Love You Ron and will see you on the other side. Hugh Muehlberg
Culley said at the top of the page where do you start.I have known ronnie for over ten years and have people very close to me that have known him for over twenty. I have had alot of interaction with ronnie over the years some good some bad but always humorous and I have seen first hand the transformation he has made throughout the years and have had nothing but admiration towards him for that.I can only hope now that he can say he has been to spain. Author Unknown
Me and Ron always went to sa then he'd say okay Dawson now were cruising for chics. my face would be bright red..and i always said NO WAY RON..I'M gonna miss my golf partener!! love u Ron Miss you so much DAWSON AUMAN
Unlike most of you, I did not get to know ronnie as well! However I am deeply touched. Like somone else said, He had a way about him that would leave a very lasting immpression on those who he met!I met him at our mens Bible study.I cannot recall one morning that we would stay on course, As he would always relate life stories to whatever it was we were on at that moment. or just raise many questions that somtimes would either have me laughing out loud, Or more times send myself off for the day thinking of him and his very inquisitive mind. He truly was a great, "grown man"!I can only say I am truly sorry for the loss of him. for everyone! But just think of the stories and lessons he will have for us, When we meet again!!! Lane Gilliland
I added a lengthy addition to this "guestbook" earlier but, I wanted to come back and review all the new additions since I left mine--and I just wanted to add that I am SO thankful to those who have added their own stories about Ronnie (my Cousin). There were those moments when none of us knew where or what Ronnie was up to and, to read a lot of the stories here, fills up some of those empty spaces somewhat...for me, anyways. Its a true blessing for me to read these memories from his closest and truest friends that also shared his short life, and I also want to especially thank the people "behind the scenes" for making this memorial possible. It was the sweetest, most thoughtful gesture anyone could do for him, for the family and for yourselves. What a true tribute! THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU--and I know I do not speak for myself. Sincerely, Lori Alama
Ron, you will be missed by so many. I am honored to have known you. Rest in Peace Ron.Author unknown
When I first met Ronnie I thought he was a jerk but once I got to know him I thought he was a pretty cool guy which became a good friend. I lost in touch with him when I moved up north along with the rest of our group and with-in the last 2 years I been getting in touch with everyone and then to here this is a Big shock to me. I wish I had the chance to talk to him again. He will always be in my heart. Magel
I am sorry I missed out on the last few years ron. It sounds like you made people proud. I always was !!!!! Author Unknown
A giant is often misunderstood Not all giants have massive hands that can bend iron in half Some are hands just strong enough for a pat on the back Their arms aren’t always big enough to lift mountains Some are enough to lift a friend Their eyes aren’t always large and brooding They have been known to be thoughtful and deep Their height isn’t necessarily measured to skyscraper proportions Rather, if they can reach high enough to help someone just shorter than themselves The footprints of a Giant aren’t always canyons or valleys They might be just big enough for us to follow in They don’t have to command the attention of thousands A true giant would rather whisper in the ear of a child if only to hear them giggle No, a giant doesn’t need a castle, a beanstalk, or even a golden goose Courage, loyalty, and friendship are the traits of what it takes to be A giant of a (grown) man Author and Submission Unknown
I am still in shock. I can't remember the last time I saw you, but am honored to have known you for a very long time. Rest with God my friend. Tina Gahm
The first time I had met Ronnie I had just finished painting almost every wall in Jeff's house in Ramsey and in his brutal honest way told me I should have called him to paint :) Every time I see brush strokes on my walls I think of Ronnie!! Thanks to all you who helped him along his path to the Lord! Just knowing that he accepted Jesus as his savior we all know we will see him again!! Blessings, Heidi Anderson
I am still in shock over Ronnie's passing. I have also been very angry that he was taken from us too soon. The anger is starting to pass as I have been reading the stories from his friends and recalling my own memories with Ronnie. He has enriched many lives, in ways that I never thought possible. When growing up Ronnie was like a brother to me, not just a cousin. He was part of our family, he lived with us, went on vacations with us and tormented me like I can only imagine an older brother does. I did lose touch with Ronnie for a while, but when he came back, things fell right back into place. I can still hear his booming voice "Hey Melis" and trying to bait me into an argument. All of the characteristics I have seen people mention- proud, stubborn, honest and opinionated- do fit Ronnie. It shaped him into the "grown man" we all knew. Not only was I very proud to see what he had accomplished in the past few years and hear his plans for the future, but I was equally as excited to show him my accomplishments. I still looked up to him after all of these years, his opinion mattered. I am very grateful for the opportunity to reconnect with Ronnie. I am also very proud to know he touched so many lives, for that, I will continue to look up to him. Love you Ron- Melissa Johnson
As with everyone else, I am deeply saddend by this news. I have needed a bit of time to try and collect my thoughts and try to decide what it is that I truley want to share with everyone else, I have come up with a few stories that at the very least are personal and I hope will allow others to see the man that Ronnie was.... Ronnie spent quite a bit of time at my cabins and became a part of our extended family...My mother wanted me to relay a story here for her. Ronnie and her spent multiple times at our cabins going through pictures from our families past, pictures that date to the early 1920's, Ronnie always thought it was so great that we were afforded such a great family structure for so many years. He and my mother becmae friends through those moments and she has been deeply effected by his loss as we all have. I will never forget having BBQ's at my house when my stupid mini weiner dog Chip would always jump up and steal Ronnies food, right out of his hand, he hated that damn dog, but he always said the first one was Chips fault, after that it was on him... Ronnie was considered an uncle by my daughters as they grew up,and they had many great times and memories together. I will never be able to put into words all the great times we had together...I met Ronnie when we were in elementary school, lost touch, reconnected, and became great friends again. I am so sad that I am out of state at this time and will not be able to be there for the funeral, but please trust me on this, he is in my thoughts, my heart ,and my families thoughts. God bless ya Big Man we're all gonna be a little bit less with out you here,. I love ya Big Man. Brady, the Christenson family and
Rest well my friend. Tina Gahm
Ronnie- It is your brother. I miss and love you very much .The time that we had together; I will keep in my heart and think of you often. I will miss every thing we did together (golfing, painting and just hanging out). I will miss your voice when you answered my phone calls with "What’s up Dummy". I will never forget the time when we fished in the Salmon Classic Fishing tournament. You managed to get all six lines tied up within seconds of the tournament starting. As we were pulling in the lines to get them all straightened out. You somehow ended up with the biggest fish and won the tournament! I Love you Dummy. ~ Gary Paar
After seeing this web site with all that is said, seen and heard about Ron, it is good to see that he made good with himself after all experiences he went through. It is way too early for him to go. I have not been in contact with Ron for years, but recall memories like they just happened yesterday. The camping trip pictures are great and memories are even better… I will not be able to make it on Friday, but Ron will be in my thoughts, and also all of you who are a part of his life. Darrin Zabaske
Ron...You will be missed by many and never forgetten. I am lucky to have spent many days and nights with you. You taught me to see life through a diffrent set of eyes because of that I am a better person. Love you, Heather Wilson
I only new Ronnie for a short while, but what I did know is that he was a hell of a man,very honest and hard working. Memories of playing you in a heads up game, me beating you will always stay with me:) My heart goes out to all his friends, and family he will be missed by all... Author Unknown
After reading the letters you all have written, I'm starting to think I was one of the lucky ones. I've spent many days with Mr. Little over the past few months. He came over in May sometime after the fishing season started and told me he's been a little depressed. We decided to go to Mille Lacs. He caught more than I did so I figured we would go again in a few days so I could prove to him it was all luck. He did it again. I kept telling him I'm the guide and I'm not supposed to catch as many as him. He didn't buy it. Now we had about 8 walleyes and I told him I could fry them up for us some night that week. That's when it all started. I think Ronnie thought I liked to cook, because that following Saturday morning I received a text at 7AM wondering what's for breakfast. Now it didn't matter what I had in the fridge, just as long as I had stuff for French toast. If I didn't have eggs, milk, bread, or syrup he would stop on his way and buy it. This went on for weeks. He would be over on Saturday and Sunday mornings for my lousy breakfast. He didn't like the way I cooked my eggs. I never made the bacon right. He loved hash browns but I told him they took too long so we only had them once. He would walk in and wonder why he couldn't smell the food cooking. I would say "because I haven't started it yet Mr. Little." Then he would go over the text he sent me saying he would be over in 20 minutes, meaning I probably should have started cooking right then. I would laugh and he would call me Jerk Boy. Ronnie stopped by on Wednesday to stain the ironing board closet doors, because he wanted my house to look good for my daughter Amanda's graduation party. Ronnie did all the painting for me. He was slow last Christmas and I had some extra cash, so we came up with the colors for the living room. He was very proud of the way it turned out. I've had many comments on how nice it looks. I always gave him a hard time, because that's the way I am. On Wednesday, he was leaving, and I said thanks and told him how much I appreciated all his help. What I should have said is "Ronnie, I love you and appreciate you." He would have stopped in his tracks and said "whoa, whoa, whoa!" Then he would have come up with some comment on how I should save that love for God or my family. Ronnie was part of my family. He was my brother and now he is gone. I was lucky enough to get to spend time with him during his last few hours, and I wish I would've done something or said something to make him realize how important he was. Now with a heavy heart Ronnie, I'm going to say goodbye. I'm not going to mourn your passing anymore, I'm going to celebrate your life with your friends by my side. You will be missed and never forgotten. I love you Ronnie. Your brother, Kenny
I only met Ron a few times at the Wednesday morning bible study in Feb or March of this year. I already have Ron stories! I remember thinking, "Is this guy for real?" He was so blunt in everything he said and I wasn't sure what to make of him. After I listened to him for awhile, I could tell he was genuine. I was only at the bible study two or three times but now wish I would have gone more often, just to hear Ron spout off or go off on a tangent. Seriously, I really liked Ron, even though I couldn't relate to the life he has had. It is amazing to me what God can do when He gets hold of a man's heart, especially a rough-around-the-edges guy like Ron. I am sad to hear that he is gone from this earth, but am rejoicing that he is now with our savior, Jesus. I'm sure Ron is, too. Thank you for the brief glimpse into your world, Ron. You will be missed. Larry Homan
Uncle Ron, I too can't believe that I am having to talk with you or about you under these circumstances. It really pisses me off, I mean saddens me greatly. We have alot in common, except I'm blessed with always being shown and told how much I'm appreciated, you were not told enough until now. And even if you were by some I don't think you'd of believed it. You're a real gem - you had already reached success in so many things and friends galore just look and read all these entries. You EARNED these words ALL of them - this is not pitty talk. We will all miss you, I will more than I want to admit. I truely think we were like kindred spirits, no not like - we were. Bye for now
May the road rise up to meet you. May the wind always be at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face, and rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the palm of His hand. Rest In Peace my friend, I miss you. Megan
When i was up from Flordia a month ago I had a chance to play a round of golf with him. I asked if he like to be call Ronnie or Ron? He replied I'm a man "my name is Ron Small". Yes Ron was a man. While we were playing golf he notice someone get mad about his golf stroke on a shot. He said to me " I don't get it, why do they get mad, they're not in a car accident, or going to jail, they're playing golf". He was talking about my stroke, he opened up my eyes. Thanks Ron. Thanks for the time, of knowing you even though it was short. Uncle Barry
I am so sorry to her about Ronnie. I was just a little girl living down the street when he was living with Mindy and Tom. He was just a few years older than me but I had a major crush on him (I was 8 or so). I have a picture of him and me in front of Mindy and Tom's house leaning up against a tree. For the longest time I cherished that picture... little girls and their crushes. I hadn't seen him in probley 18 years then I ran into him painting up at a local grocery store. We talked for a little while. I'm glad I got to seem him again. Glad to hear that he created a relationship with God. My prayers are with all of you. Dena Wehner-Brunette
what a great tribute to Rons life . Steve and John super job at the service . I know Ron was looking down on us and would of been proud of both of you . Ron and I only got to know each other the last couple of years . shooting pool in cullman's basement I found out how competitive he was . having the opportunity to golf with him and be my partner last year on a round at viking I'll never forget ( I think he loved the music more than the golf on the golf course since glotzfest and culman fm are about the same ) . I remember him saying, " this beats the crap boes plays " as we shot even par as a team and won our match . we were all truly blessed to know Ronnie and he will be sadly missed . heaven got one of the good ones too early , Glotz
RONNIE WTF I LOVE YOU, NORM I KNOW YOU WOULD HATE ME IF I SAID THAT TO YOUR FACE BUT DEAL WITH IT<> I LOVE YOU BROTHER
Ronnie and his sister Robin lived at our home for a few years when we were kids. They quickly became family. The day Ronnie left our home was a very sad day. I felt like I was losing a brother. Instead of giving him a hug and telling him I loved him, I started a fight with him so I wouldn't have to deal with the hurt. Many years later I ran into him at the bowling alley. It was so good seeing him. We were grown men then and he told me how spoiled I was back in the day and how I wouldn't share my toys even though I had more than one. I told him I was sorry and we laughed, and then he told me again how spoiled I was. We talked about getting together, but we didn't. Reading these stories bring me a lot of happiness knowing he meant so much to so many. I will miss you Ronnie and am thankful to your family and friends that have shared these wonderful memories. I am proud of you and look up to you for sobering up, finding God and always being a wonderful person. I wish I could give you that hug and tell you I love you. Jeff Tousignant
Ronnie, Ron, you were such a special child, such a special man. You impacted so many people, so many lives. You deserved so much and asked for so little. I wish life could have been better for you growing up, but you had Mindy and Tom, Melissa and Sarah to show you how it should be. The one thing you wanted most, never happened and we told you to not to live in past, and live life now, one day at a time. Your at peace now, and you've left behind a lot of people who are missing you. I loved you Ronnie, you never corrected me when I called you that. you will live on in our hearts and memories forever, and this beautiful memorial site to you. I will miss you, and always love you. Aunt Sherry
One day last winter Ron called me at work, he apologized for calling me at work. I told him that it was okay he was probably my best friend, and good friends call each other. I did not know it then, but right now I feel like I have lost a very dear friend. Ron had a way of making me feel like I did everything right. My kids told me he was nicer to me than he usually was. I remember telling one of them "you should be nicer to Ronnie". I think we all should have been nicer to Ron. I've heard many of you talk of Ron's coming to God, I think God sent Ron to us as a gift. He did leave an impact on all of us. My granddaughter was taking her Barbie dolls out and she pulled out the boy doll and said this one is Ronnie. I told her I thought his name was Ken. She told me quite firmly "this is Ronnie Small." Even a four year old thought he was special. Thank you Ron! Judy
I want to just thank the people that made my cousins funeral service as beautiful as it was. The speakers did a wonderful, amazing job...you guys couldnt have been more on point in describing my cousin like you did. I laughed, I cried and I nodded my head in agreement with you from the front row, so many, many times. I sang along to "She talks to Angels"--which is also my favorite song, while I held my younger cousin Tristika (Ronnies neice) and we cried... To watch the youngest cousin that I was raised with be laid to rest too soon, and to sit there with another younger cousin, watching her watch her last uncles funeral next to me, was surreal to me. It hurt me so much--I cant even to begin to imagine her own pain. I have never experienced a service so beautiful, in so many ways, and I have seen a lot of people--too many--"go home". It was so touching. Thank you for sharing with us and giving to us. God bless the hearts and families of each and every one of you. Everyone, take care. And say the things you mean to say to those you love--dont put it off for another day--because nobody knows when anyones last day on this earth is. To Aunt Mindy and Uncle Tom, I want to thank you especially, for being a light in Ronnies life that he may not have had otherwise, if it hadn't been for the love you had for him. Lori Alama
I'd hadn't seen Ron in many years and didn't even know how he had changed his life so dramatically. I'm proud of him for making the changes not only in his own life, but in the effect his changes had on the lives of those near him in recent years. As I listened to the stories told at his memorial I laughed because his bluntness and to the point attitude are just like the Ron I used to know. There was a group of us who hung out for several years back in the early 90's and then many of us lost track of each other. The news of his passing caused our group to call each other again and we've spent many hours on the phone telling stories and looking at old photos. At his memorial we determined that some of us hadn't seen each other in 12 years but we figured Ron was smiling down on us all since we came together again. Of course it was a sad day but many more happy memories were created and friendships rekindled, which seems like just was Ron was hoping for those around him. Michele Gaabo "Rev"
well Ronnie.This is your cousin Denise.We hadnt seen much of each other since we were kids.YOU SURE GREW UP TO BE A GREAT GUY.Im just sorry i missed out on it.Your service was beautiful and I cant believe how many friends and loved ones you have.yes have and always will.youve also got some great sisters that will miss u dearly.Rest In peace my wonderful cousin.youll be deaply missed.love you.DENISE
I have checked this sight almost everyday...to see if there were any new stories. I had prepared something to read at his memorial...just in case.... Steve and John did the most unbelievble job...no one else needed to speak. here is what I had ready..just in case. His friends will know what I say is SO true... I wrote this a few days before Ronnie’s funeral…just in case… There are a few traditions at funerals that I’m uncomfortable with . One is asking people to speak who did not come prepared. I did this time. The other thing I’m uncomfortable with is asking people to turn to their ”neighbors” to shake hands. Ronnie & I agreed on this…..but for different reasons….most of you know that Ronnie was kind of touchy about germs…to say the least !!HA!! To this day I don’t open a restroom door to leave without a paper towel in my hand for the door handle. Ronnie said that if there wasn’t a trash can by the door- you could take your best shot to the closest one. People should know better he said, there should always be a can by the door !! Every time I enter a restroom, I check for the trash can because of Ronnie. In several places- I’ve actually moved the can…cuz Ronnie said that was okay to do too !! Most of the friends here also know that Ronnie would never say ” take a drink of mine.”…whoa whoa whoa…NO way..he would say…”I”ll buy you one of your own…don’t get me wrong “ I knew better that to ask Ronnie to taste something out of the same glass !! Once at my nieces’s birthday party he passed on having cake.. I asked him quietly why…” cuz I’m sure them kids just blew spit all over it when they blew out the candles” Oh my goodness we laughed together over that one !! Again his reply “ Don’t get me wrong, I love her..just don’t want her spit on my frosting !! " Ronnie was “phobic” about good things too. If he had promised to do something, and a better or more fun opportunity arose-- he stuck to his plans. There were many of our family gatherings that Ronnie had to leave early because he had promised to take someone somewhere. Or just give them a ride home etc. Or the time he went up to a friends party just to take all the kids out on the pontoon…to give the parents a break he said !! That was just Ronnie…always willing to give..much more than he was willing to take from others. Ronnie was such a huge part of my families life, he was there for some rough times and some wonderful ones as well. There is no way to express the “hole” he leaves in our family and in our hearts. We Love you Ronnie Small. Marlene Lom
: Hi, this is Ronnie's cousin Lori (again). Just stopping in to read more stories! I just wanted to add that the birthdate on Ronnie's memorial card was wrong, for those that dont know. His birthdate was September 21st. I LOVE reading these notes, keep them comin!

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